“Lo, children are a heritage of the Lord: and the fruit of the womb is his reward.” – Psalm 127:3
Bible Verses About Not Having Children
God’s Purpose for Our Lives
As we explore the subject of not having children, it’s essential to remember that God has a unique purpose for each of us. Those who may not have had children can still serve God and others in meaningful ways. We can find comfort in the idea that our worth is not determined by our ability to bear children, but rather by our relationship with God and how we live out His calling. In the Bible, many individuals achieved greatness without children, from Paul the Apostle to Jesus Himself. We are called to fulfill God’s purpose in our lives, no matter our situation.
Jeremiah 29:11
“For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.” – Jeremiah 29:11
Proverbs 19:21
“Many are the plans in a person’s heart, but it is the Lord’s purpose that prevails.” – Proverbs 19:21
1 Corinthians 12:18
“But in fact God has placed the parts in the body, every one of them, just as he wanted them to be.” – 1 Corinthians 12:18
Romans 8:28
“And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.” – Romans 8:28
Philippians 4:13
“I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.” – Philippians 4:13
The Beauty of Spiritual Fruitfulness
While we may not have children in a physical sense, we can still be profoundly fruitful through our spiritual endeavors. Engaging in community, mentoring younger people, and sharing the Gospel can all be ways to bear spiritual fruit. The Bible teaches that spiritual growth can often outweigh physical offspring, so we can embrace our journeys, knowing that our actions still leave a legacy. Just as Jesus said that we should bear fruit, we can take comfort that our contributions to faith, love, and kindness make a significant difference.
John 15:5
“I am the vine; you are the branches. If you remain in me and I in you, you will bear much fruit; apart from me you can do nothing.” – John 15:5
Galatians 5:22-23
“But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law.” – Galatians 5:22-23
Matthew 5:16
“In the same way, let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven.” – Matthew 5:16
2 Corinthians 9:8
“And God is able to bless you abundantly, so that in all things at all times, having all that you need, you will abound in every good work.” – 2 Corinthians 9:8
Colossians 1:10
“So that you may live a life worthy of the Lord and please him in every way: bearing fruit in every good work, growing in the knowledge of God.” – Colossians 1:10
God’s Comfort in Our Loneliness
Experiencing feelings of loneliness can be common for those of us who long for children. Yet, we are not alone because God is always with us. He is our Comforter and reminds us that He understands our struggles. In praying and seeking His presence, we can find solace in the idea that we are loved and cherished, regardless of our family situation. God assures us that he is near to the brokenhearted and can provide peace in our lives.
Psalm 34:18
“The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.” – Psalm 34:18
Matthew 28:20
“And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age.” – Matthew 28:20
Isaiah 41:10
“So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.” – Isaiah 41:10
John 14:18
“I will not leave you as orphans; I will come to you.” – John 14:18
2 Thessalonians 2:16-17
“May our Lord Jesus Christ himself and God our Father, who loved us and by his grace gave us eternal encouragement and good hope, encourage your hearts and strengthen you in every good deed and word.” – 2 Thessalonians 2:16-17
Trusting God in Difficult Times
In the face of our struggles with not having children, we are called to trust in God’s timing. Life can present us with tough moments, but it’s crucial to lean on God during these times. As Christians, we know that He has a plan for each of us that is good and perfect. Our faith should encourage us to seek His help and wisdom as we navigate our feelings about parenthood and family life. With trust, we can patiently wait for God’s promises to unfold in our lives.
Isaiah 26:3
“You will keep in perfect peace those whose minds are steadfast, because they trust in you.” – Isaiah 26:3
Proverbs 3:5-6
“Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.” – Proverbs 3:5-6
Psalm 37:5
“Commit your way to the Lord; trust in him and he will do this.” – Psalm 37:5
1 Peter 5:7
“Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you.” – 1 Peter 5:7
Hebrews 10:23
“Let us hold unswervingly to the hope we profess, for he who promised is faithful.” – Hebrews 10:23
Finding Community and Support
We can find strength in community, particularly when dealing with the trials of not having children. Engaging with others who understand our feelings can provide comfort and support. We should not shy away from seeking help and connecting with fellow believers who can pray for us and lift us up. Engaging in church activities or small groups can create a safe space for us to share our experiences and find encouragement as we walk this path together.
Galatians 6:2
“Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ.” – Galatians 6:2
Hebrews 10:24-25
“And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds, not giving up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but encouraging one another