“Delight yourself in the LORD, and he will give you the desires of your heart.” – Psalm 37:4
Bible Verses About Waiting For Marriage
Trusting God’s Timing
As we journey through life, we often find ourselves questioning God’s timing for everything, including marriage. We know that waiting can be challenging, especially when it seems like everyone around us is finding their life partners. However, in our hearts, we can find peace by reminding ourselves that God’s timing is perfect. His plans for us are filled with hope and promise. We must trust that He knows our desires and dreams and that in His time, all things will fall into place. We can rest assured that if we faithfully seek Him and His kingdom first, He will align our paths according to His perfect will for our lives.
Ecclesiastes 3:11
“He has made everything beautiful in its time. He has also set eternity in the human heart; yet no one can fathom what God has done from beginning to end.” – Ecclesiastes 3:11
Isaiah 40:31
“But those who hope in the LORD will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary; they will walk and not be faint.” – Isaiah 40:31
Jeremiah 29:11
“For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.” – Jeremiah 29:11
Psalm 27:14
“Wait for the LORD; be strong and take heart and wait for the LORD.” – Psalm 27:14
Proverbs 3:5-6
“Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.” – Proverbs 3:5-6
God’s Purpose for Relationships
When we think about waiting for marriage, it’s important to reflect on why God has created the institution of marriage. It’s not just about companionship, but it’s also about reflecting God’s love and purpose in the world. As we wait, we can work on developing our character and aligning our hearts with God’s desires. Understanding God’s purpose for relationships helps us recognize the beauty in waiting. We can use this time to deepen our faith, grow in love, and maintain our focus on God, trusting that He will bring the right person into our lives when the time is right.
Genesis 2:18
“The LORD God said, ‘It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him.'” – Genesis 2:18
1 Corinthians 10:31
“So whether you eat or drink or whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God.” – 1 Corinthians 10:31
Ephesians 5:31
“For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.” – Ephesians 5:31
Song of Solomon 8:4
“Daughters of Jerusalem, I charge you: Do not arouse or awaken love until it so desires.” – Song of Solomon 8:4
Colossians 3:14
“And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity.” – Colossians 3:14
Preparing for Marriage
While we are waiting for marriage, we must remember that it’s also a time for preparation. This period can serve as an opportunity for us to work on ourselves—spiritually, emotionally, and even physically. We can grow closer to God, refine our character, and learn what it means to love ourselves and others. During this waiting period, let us seek to become better individuals so that when we enter into marriage, we are ready to love deeply and sacrificially. The better we prepare, the more successful our future marriage will likely be.
Proverbs 18:22
“He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the LORD.” – Proverbs 18:22
1 Peter 3:7
“Husbands, in the same way be considerate as you live with your wives, and treat them with respect as the weaker partner and as heirs with you of the gracious gift of life, so that nothing will hinder your prayers.” – 1 Peter 3:7
Philippians 4:4-5
“Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice! Let your gentleness be evident to all. The Lord is near.” – Philippians 4:4-5
James 1:19
“My dear brothers and sisters, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry.” – James 1:19
Galatians 5:22-23
“But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law.” – Galatians 5:22-23
Embracing Singleness
Before we enter into marriage, many of us will experience the period of singleness. It is essential for us to embrace this time and make the most of it. Our singleness is a gift; it allows us to deepen our relationship with God and focus on our personal growth. We can engage in activities and communities that bring us joy and fulfillment. Through this time, we can learn what we truly want in a future partner and how to be the best partner ourselves. By valuing our single years, we prepare ourselves for a marriage blossom with love and mutual respect.
1 Corinthians 7:8
“Now to the unmarried and the widows I say: It is good for them to stay unmarried, as I do.” – 1 Corinthians 7:8
Psalm 37:3
“Trust in the LORD and do good; dwell in the land and enjoy safe pasture.” – Psalm 37:3
Matthew 6:33
“But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.” – Matthew 6:33
Hebrews 13:5
“Keep your lives free from the love of money and be content with what you have, because God has said, ‘Never will I leave you; never will I forsake you.'” – Hebrews 13:5
Psalm 46:10
“Be still, and know that I am God; I will be exalted among the nations, I will be exalted in the earth.” – Psalm 46:10
Handling Temptation While Waiting
Waiting for marriage comes with its own set of challenges, particularly when it comes to handling temptation. As we await our future partner, we are encouraged to maintain our purity and integrity. Temptation can feel overwhelming, but we can strengthen ourselves through prayer, scripture, and accountability with fellow believers. By being mindful of our actions and intentions, we can protect our hearts. Remembering that our bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit can help motivate us to honor God during this period of waiting.
1 Corinthians 6:18
“Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a person commits are outside the body, but whoever sins sexually, sins against their own body.” – 1 Corinthians 6:18
Romans 12:1-2
“Therefore, I urge you, brothers and sisters, in view of God’s mercy, to offer your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and pleasing to God—this is your true and proper worship